I dated a divorcee for few years couple of years back in Nepal. She is outgoing and I dont know why she got divorced and its none of my concern too. I used to hang around with her a lot.Recently, haribansha got married to widow and dos that makes me comparable to Hari dai?
I am happily married and have a bhote son just like me.

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Hold on!! Am not getting you!!

• Are you married now?
• Did you date when you were single or still married ?
• If you are married now why on earth you want to start this thread comparing yourself to HariBansha. HB moved on only when he was single.

Are you in love with her and is she in love with you too? Do you think both of you are compatible and has developed good understanding?
Are you are in Nepal and ready to take social pressure? .People react differently on similar situation on different occasions.   Haribans is a celebrity & was a widower and his story may not be comparable with your situation.
You raise a good question but  check yourself if you are ready either way then suggested to move accordingly. (

If you are not in love but a mere physical attraction then ask question to yourself, you have to find answer by yourself.